By Jensen Brian Abass Cummings

“Power Go Don, Money Go Don” — But Human Relationships Matter and Stay

Reflections on Friendship, Power, and Compassion in Sierra Leone

In Sierra Leone, there is an old saying: “Power go don, money go don.” This captures a timeless truth — power and wealth are fleeting. They come and go like the tide, changing the landscape of people’s lives. Yet, amidst all these changes, one thing remains constant and invaluable: human relationships.

However, in recent years, a worrying trend has emerged in Sierra Leonean society. Many individuals who have risen to positions of power—whether in government, business, or social influence—tend to forget the very people who once stood by them. Those who now have wealth often lose sight of the friendships and bonds that supported them during their difficult times. The sad reality is that power and money sometimes create walls where bridges once stood.

The Changing Landscape of Friendship and Loyalty

Friendship in Sierra Leone has traditionally been a cornerstone of social life. It is built on mutual respect, trust, and solidarity. But today, we observe a shift: those who ascend to power and affluence often isolate themselves within exclusive circles—political elites, wealthy peers, or influential social groups. Old friends, especially those who remain humble or face hardships, are often neglected or completely cut off.

This change is unfortunate because true friendship is not conditional on one’s status or wealth. We all know the truth behind the saying: “Not every time people do beg.” When a friend who rarely asks for help finally comes to you, it is a serious call for support. It means that they are facing circumstances beyond their control and need your assistance.

In life, we all have different circumstances—“the fingers are not the same.” Your friend might be striving quietly to improve their life, but sometimes life’s unexpected challenges demand help from others. Ignoring these calls can fracture relationships that once meant everything.

Power, Money, and the Test of True Friendship

In Sierra Leone’s cultural context, friendship often transcends political and social divides. Yet, we now witness situations where friendships are sacrificed on the altar of politics or social ambition. A friend who does not share your political party or social class may be marginalized or ignored, despite the shared history you once had.

This is a dangerous path. History has shown us that power and wealth are impermanent. Many of our nation’s past leaders, who once wielded great influence, have fallen into sickness, misfortune, or even untimely deaths, often under mysterious or heartbreaking circumstances. Their fortunes vanish, leaving only memories and, sometimes, regrets.

This reality reminds us that what truly endures are the human connections we nurture. Those old friends who stood by you when you had nothing are often the ones who will support you when your own fortunes decline.

The Impact of Social Changes and Western Influence

Sierra Leone, like many African countries, is experiencing rapid social change. The influx of Western values and lifestyles has influenced how relationships are perceived and maintained. Western cultures tend to emphasize individualism and personal achievement, which sometimes contrasts with the communal values deeply embedded in African societies.

As we embrace modernization, it is crucial not to lose sight of the values that sustain us—community, loyalty, and mutual support. The rise of social media and instant communication has both connected and divided us. While it offers new ways to maintain relationships, it can also foster superficial connections that lack depth.

A Call for Compassion and Humility

To those who have gained power and wealth: remember your journey. Recall the friends who shared your struggles, your hopes, and your dreams before you reached where you are today. Life’s unpredictability means roles can easily reverse, and those who are at the top today may find themselves needing support tomorrow.

Your one phone call, your small gesture of kindness, can mean the world to a friend in need. It could change their life or even save it.

It is understandable that everyone has their own challenges, and managing relationships can be complex. But genuine friendship requires effort, understanding, and sometimes, sacrifice. Don’t let pride, political affiliation, or social status cloud your judgment.

Advice for All Sierra Leoneans

• Cherish Your Roots: Never forget those who supported you before success. Your friendships were forged in the fire of shared experience.
• Value Loyalty: True friends are rare and invaluable. They don’t disappear when you gain power or wealth.
• Show Empathy: Understand that everyone faces difficulties, even if it’s not always visible.
• Be Humble: Power and money can disappear quickly, but kindness and respect last forever.
• Bridge Divides: Don’t allow political or social differences to sever your bonds. Sierra Leone’s strength lies in unity and understanding.

Conclusion: The Lasting Power of Human Relationships

In the end, power and money are temporary. They can elevate or isolate us, but they cannot replace the warmth of true friendship. For Sierra Leone to grow and thrive, it must be built on the foundation of strong human relationships.

As individuals and as a nation, we must nurture compassion, loyalty, and humility. When we do, we create a society where no one is truly alone, no matter their status or wealth. This is the legacy worth striving for—because human relationships matter and stay long after power and money are gone.

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